Guys, Stoicism.. Do any of you know much about it? It has a lot to say about discomfort, it seems to be a major part of their practice. Below is an introduction to one of their major 'spiritual practices' of Practicing Misfortune.
In brief, Stoicism is a school of philosophy not a religion, founded in Athens in 3rd century BC. There are just a few simple teachings and and it's mainly a practice. Other examples of their spiritual practices are also in the spirit of allowing discomfort to exist.
Really interesting: Intro to Stoicism and some practices
1.Practice Misfortune
“It is in times of security that the spirit should be preparing itself for difficult times; while fortune is bestowing favors on it is then is the time for it to be strengthened against her rebuffs.” -Seneca
Seneca, who enjoyed great wealth as the adviser of Nero, suggested that we ought to set aside a certain number of days each month to practice poverty. Take a little food, wear your worst clothes, get away from the comfort of your home and bed. Put yourself face to face with want, he said, you’ll ask yourself “Is this what I used to dread?”
It’s important to remember that this is an exercise and not a rhetorical device. He doesn’t mean “think about” misfortune, he means live it. Comfort is the worst kind of slavery because you’re always afraid that something or someone will take it away. But if you can not just anticipate but practice misfortune, then chance loses its ability to disrupt your life.
Montaigne was fond of an ancient drinking game where the members took turns holding up a painting of a corpse inside a coffin and cheered “Drink and be merry for when you’re dead you will look like this.”
Emotions like anxiety and fear have their roots in uncertainty and rarely in experience. Anyone who has made a big bet on themselves knows how much energy both states can consume. The solution is to do something about that ignorance. Make yourself familiar with the things, the worst-case scenarios, that you’re afraid of.
Practice what you fear, whether a simulation in your mind or in real life. The downside is almost always reversible or transient.
This is brilliant, Sari!
ReplyDeleteStoicism shows a persistence to follow a duty and guidance, tackling the discomfort to make us grow stronger and resilient. Definitely something brilliant to look into.